Context: There is no interaction between two persons namely Person1 and Person2 for some specific time.
Person1: One day contacts Person2, says 'Hi'
Person2: Asks all the formal questions(How are you?, where are you?, what are you doing?, etc), and suddenly queries why you didn't call from so many days / months / years (as if this person calls Person1 regularly). Didn't you remember me?
Person1: ???!!
Person1: If this person asks the same question (why didn't you call me?) to Person2, then...
Person2: I'm busy or will say I've no time.
Person1: !!!!???
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Context: Normally people's priorities change from time to time, one person calls another person only if there is some work / question / inquiry.
Person1: Calls Person2, says 'Hi'.
Person2: Yes tell me, is there any special?
Person1: Nothing, simply calling.
Person2: No jokes yaar, tell me what's the news?
Person1: ???
Bottomline: Some people feel these are communication skills!!! In most of the cases, one person calls other person only at necessary times. This doesn't mean not to call others at necessary times. Give and take policy to be followed, not always taking from others.
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Context: How people react if we ask for help / suggestion? What if we don't ask?
Person1: Calls Person2, after some intro asks/inquires about an issue/some thing?
Person2: Sorry, I don't know.
Person2: Ok.
After some times (days/months/years),
Person1: Calls Person2, and says because of someone or some issue I'm facing problem.
Person2: Why didn't you ask earlier?
Person1: !!!
Bottomline: Some people are interested in other people to know the things, not to help.
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Context: Someone who is trying for job and asks for help.
Scenario1:
Person2: Calls/meets Person1, asks/requests is there any job opening?
Person1: Oh... you should have called last week (or yesterday), I suggested Person3 and got job.
Person2: !!!, are there any other openings?
Person1: No problem, Forward your profile.
Person2: Sends profile, and calls again after some days.
Person1: Oh... you should have called yesterday, one position was there. Now I'm not sure.
Person2: ??? (God knows)
Scenario2:
Person2: Are there any openings?
Person1: Send your profile to my mail id.
Person2: Calls Person1 after some days or immediately.
Person1: I didn't receive, can you resend again.
Person2: Sure, I'll send. Calls Person1 and informs.
Person1: Is it? I'll check and revert you.
Person2: ??!!!
Bottomline: Some people want to show off in front of others that they can do whatever they want. Of course, the end result may come late than as usual. If a person wants to help others, then its better to say whether they can do or not / will guide what to do.
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Person1: One day contacts Person2, says 'Hi'
Person2: Asks all the formal questions(How are you?, where are you?, what are you doing?, etc), and suddenly queries why you didn't call from so many days / months / years (as if this person calls Person1 regularly). Didn't you remember me?
Person1: ???!!
Person1: If this person asks the same question (why didn't you call me?) to Person2, then...
Person2: I'm busy or will say I've no time.
Person1: !!!!???
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Context: Normally people's priorities change from time to time, one person calls another person only if there is some work / question / inquiry.
Person1: Calls Person2, says 'Hi'.
Person2: Yes tell me, is there any special?
Person1: Nothing, simply calling.
Person2: No jokes yaar, tell me what's the news?
Person1: ???
Bottomline: Some people feel these are communication skills!!! In most of the cases, one person calls other person only at necessary times. This doesn't mean not to call others at necessary times. Give and take policy to be followed, not always taking from others.
***********************************************************************************
Context: How people react if we ask for help / suggestion? What if we don't ask?
Person1: Calls Person2, after some intro asks/inquires about an issue/some thing?
Person2: Sorry, I don't know.
Person2: Ok.
After some times (days/months/years),
Person1: Calls Person2, and says because of someone or some issue I'm facing problem.
Person2: Why didn't you ask earlier?
Person1: !!!
Bottomline: Some people are interested in other people to know the things, not to help.
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Context: Someone who is trying for job and asks for help.
Scenario1:
Person2: Calls/meets Person1, asks/requests is there any job opening?
Person1: Oh... you should have called last week (or yesterday), I suggested Person3 and got job.
Person2: !!!, are there any other openings?
Person1: No problem, Forward your profile.
Person2: Sends profile, and calls again after some days.
Person1: Oh... you should have called yesterday, one position was there. Now I'm not sure.
Person2: ??? (God knows)
Scenario2:
Person2: Are there any openings?
Person1: Send your profile to my mail id.
Person2: Calls Person1 after some days or immediately.
Person1: I didn't receive, can you resend again.
Person2: Sure, I'll send. Calls Person1 and informs.
Person1: Is it? I'll check and revert you.
Person2: ??!!!
Bottomline: Some people want to show off in front of others that they can do whatever they want. Of course, the end result may come late than as usual. If a person wants to help others, then its better to say whether they can do or not / will guide what to do.
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< To be continued....>
Note: Return to the main list, listOfBlogs
